Wednesday, July 30, 2008

Parents

Hey kids,

Parents. Is the only people i the whole entire world that really love you more than anything else besides their husband or wife. Our world is surrounded by them. They control our income, the perimeters and the things we must do stuff for them. And some times i guess deep down in our hearts we say how can i love you, mom and dad.

Well, You want to be good with your parents? it all come downs to one thing which is Attitude. Our attitude is always changing. In begin with our parents when we are young or small little kid. We show the attitude of adoration, we adore our parents, for example "my daddy can run faster than your daddy". We take our mom and dad as the coolest people in the world. They are like superman/woman. Then as time change us, we see our parents in a different way, and it more towards the negative side. It is when we are teenage, where we want things in a fast pace and our parents have to play catch up. In the end we are frustrated with them, and we tend to bad mouth about our parents. Example, Why my parents are so like that? Why my parents can't be like yours? Why they have to do funny things in front of my friends? and lists goes on and on. Well, they are playing catch up with you.

It's only later in life that we come back full circle, back to veneration. Where we end up still loving them more than ever. There is a verse that goes like this
"Parents are the pride of their children". Proverbs 17:6
You have to understand that your parents come from a different generation. Where back then things are beginning to bloom, where technology wasn't a big thing, where their fun was cool back then. They are playing catch up with you. Cause they want to know what their child is turning into. Our parents are not professional parents. Parenting is a one time in a life time. They do not know how the youth of today is. They only know the youth in their time where they are youth. Again they are playing catch up with you. Are parents don't want to be adults, they want to be youthful like you. They want to be involve in the things we do. They care. They love. They will die for. Parents always want the best out of you. They want you to achieve higher than them. Earn double the amount they are earning now. I think many parents do not know their child life and i think may parents do this...they read Zits. Cause the comic is so like us. Is so similar.

So don't let your parents play catch up with you. Let them know the 'in' and 'out' of things. What is cool and not cool. If you want your parents to be cool, you have to do that. The bible say honor and obey.
Children, obey your parents in the Lord, for this is right. "Honor your father and mother"-which is the first commandment with a promise-"that it may go well with you and that you may enjoy long life in the earth". Ephesians 6:1-3
i tell you is true, obey, honor and tell them. You get cool parents. Teach them about the things they want to know from you. I think it is the only way we can say i love you is by teaching.

Good attitude,